If you are in a relationship with a partner who continually repeats themselves, this thriving relationship tip is for you.
First of all, we wholeheartedly recognize this can feel overwhelming and draining for you at times…
…and it may even be tempting to want to pull away, become defensive, and so forth.
Of course, there may be some tweaks they could make in how they are communicating.
However, today, we’re inspired to share 3 quick things for you, as we find it’s often the most helpful when we have the keys in our own hands to help create positive changes (rather than thinking we are solely dependent on our partner in order for things to improve).
Here’s the thing:
We humans often REPEAT what has not yet been REPAIRED or HEARD or what we fear can’t be TRUSTED.
Therefore, when your partner keeps repeating themselves, this is simply some loving encouragement to be sure you:
(1) are helping them feel heard (this means not only listening but also acknowledging what they’ve shared in such a way that they feel heard)
(2) have fully repaired from past hurts
and/or
(3) are following through on your agreements.
These things will help them relax, feel safe and secure, and realize you’ve got it…
…so they won’t need to work overtime to make sure you do.
Great job! We hope these things add more ease, not just for them but for you too.
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As anyone who has ever been in a romantic relationship has figured out, communication is key and one of the most valuable things we can learn.
That’s why we love training others to become communication superstars in our Thriving Relationship Coach Certification — because, when we can learn to communicate about an issue differently, the issue itself often entirely resolves.
In other words, it’s typically not even about the issue itself…
…but about how we are approaching it.
Whether it’s for personal transformation (we absolutely have people only taking it for their own growth) or because you are ready to embark on an incredibly fulfilling and abundant new career, the tools we teach in our 6-month Relationship Coach certification program allow people to finally hear and understand each other and connect in ways they never have.
It’s so exciting what’s possible in our relationships — and it’s such a profoundly beautiful thing to witness.
Wishing you a cozy, connecting, and comforting rest of your week and sending so much love always,
